{"id":10182,"date":"2020-12-03T16:54:20","date_gmt":"2020-12-03T11:24:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/triumphias.com\/blog\/?p=10182"},"modified":"2020-12-03T16:54:20","modified_gmt":"2020-12-03T11:24:20","slug":"social-media-helps-the-independent-woman-find-and-forge-new-solidarities","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/triumphias.com\/blog\/social-media-helps-the-independent-woman-find-and-forge-new-solidarities\/","title":{"rendered":"SOCIAL MEDIA HELPS THE INDEPENDENT WOMAN FIND AND FORGE NEW SOLIDARITIES"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>SOCIAL MEDIA HELPS THE INDEPENDENT WOMAN FIND AND FORGE NEW SOLIDARITIES<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">Social media tribes can never be substitutes for family or childhood pals. But then, they are not meant to be. They are a different kind of tribe \u2014 an additional tribe.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>A lot has been said about the screen-addiction of our generation<\/strong>, and how social media is isolating us, \u201cripping apart\u201d our communities and \u201ctribes\u201d, making us all lonelier. However true and grave the dangers of social media may be, there is also another side to it.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">Loneliness isn\u2019t merely a function of being physically alone, being bodily distanced from people. Loneliness is more often a function of not being able to find people who understand you, people who \u201cspeak your language\u201d.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">For quite some time now, globalisation and the resulting rush of ideas across the world has meant that we are no longer connected only to our physical tribes. In fact, our generation has seen such great transitions at supersonic speeds that we do not feel connected to our families and communities in the way that the previous generations were.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">This disconnect is far more pronounced in women than in men\u2014because men are more inclined to follow the traditional line of thought, especially since that school of thought heavily privileges them.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Independent women who have a voice and demand to be heard, who refuse to bow down to the old world order and refuse to fit in with cultural norms of what a woman \u201cought\u201d to be like \u2014 we were even lonelier in our traditional communities, our \u201ctribes\u201d. We have always been \u201cfreaks\u201d and \u201coutliers\u201d, never really belonged.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">That\u2019s not to say we don\u2019t love or need our families. We still cherish the network of family and community and neighbourhood. But we also need to be understood. And that\u2019s where our traditional communities fall short. Their worldview is so different from ours that we have spent much of our lives in isolation \u2014 an emotional isolation.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">The isolation of the modern world that is lamented so much has not been brought on by technology alone, but by the churning of ideas, by the distance between the ideas of the present generation and the previous one. A distance that is created by the present generation rebelling against the injustices of the previous ones.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">Particularly for individuals who didn\u2019t conform to normative ideas of social acceptance, traditional communities did not provide much support or emotional nourishment.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">There is no replacement for the feeling of being heard and understood that one gets in the presence of people who can empathise, and offer advice that enables you to live a life that you want \u2014 not necessarily that which society wants.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">Through social media, we are able to connect with people who understand us. Yes, social media is also full of predators and fakes \u2014 but then, isn\u2019t the real world full of them too?<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">Social media becomes a hindrance and an isolator only when you begin to use it as a replacement for real-life family and friends, ignoring their physical presence \u2014 when you are glued to your device even in the presence of people around you. Social media is not a substitute for physical networks. It is a supplement. At least, that is how it ought to be. So how do we navigate social media in a way that makes us feel less isolated, instead of more? By seeking genuine and meaningful engagements.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Instead of constantly being in battle mode over politics or religion or the newest debate, we need to attempt to genuinely connect with people at a personal level, at the level of ideas and emotions and empathy. Perhaps, some of those online friendships could translate into offline friendships too. 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